In fact, it has a little notch that slips over your clitoris

In fact, it has a little notch that slips over your clitoris

Vibrator

Other nonporous sex toy materials like metal and glass are less common in vibrators than they are in dildos, but they are out there. Dildos are the antithesis of your usual vibrator in the best way possible. They don’t intensively vibrate and they’re made for internal pleasure in the first place, so these vibe-free sex toys are practically made for experimentation.

Controlling your cock ring via a smartphone app can be useful if you don’t want to have to reach down every time you change the vibration mode, but this discreet toy really shines when used long-distance. Send your partner an invite via the Lovense app and they can give you a buzz, so to speak, from just about anywhere in the world. Our sisters at Stylecaster have impeccable taste and the vibrator they designed with Better Love is totally worth the hype. A totally non-intimidating clitoral stimulator that gives some oral-like stimulation is a great option for beginners.

In cases of anorgasmia or low libido, a tried-and-true toy such as the Magic Wand may be preferable. If you can’t get the Magic Wand Rechargeable—or you prefer a corded toy—the Magic Wand Plus offers similar features at a lower price. Some remote controlled vibrators can be paired, so you experience the same sensations at the same time. Though remote controlled sex toys have tons of potential purposes, they are commonly used in four main situations. So basically, human genitals are pretty tough, but if it hurts, don’t do it. Keep lines of communication open with your partner if you’re playing together.

Either wash your sex toys after use with soap and water and wipe down with a flannel. Where some are more than happy to talk about sex toys with their friends and partner, others still view them as a taboo subject. There’s no shame in either school of thought, but for the curious, it’s important to know what’s what. While the Magic Wand (above) works just fine on its own for penises and vulvas alike, you may as well throw this attachment into your cart along with the wand if you want your (or someone else’s) dick to be enveloped in vibration. I love using this toy on partners because of the intensity of the ridged and beaded texture on the inside; it’s fun to watch someone react to it as I stroke it up and down with the vibration turned on. Brad Garrison, a registered psychotherapist and relationship issues specialist, recommends this for guys who want a toy that’s straightforward and easy to use.

The Satisfyer Pro 2 is waterproof and easy to clean, though it is a bit loud before it creates a suction, so you may want to use this toy under some covers. The Satisfyer Pro 2 uses a pulsing sensation that provides the feel of sucking against your clitoris. In fact, it has a little notch that slips over your clitoris and creates a bit of suction, giving you a true-to-life mouth feeling. To help narrow down the best of what’s available , I tested a variety of vibrators all with their own specific use case. There were couple’s vibrators and bullet models viberator, as well as finger-worn vibes and suction models. I’ve also included some insight into the testing methodology I used at the end of this guide.

“Silicone or glass dildos are the best quality,” says Khalili, and this set doubles down on the latter option. One is pink and one is clear; the pink dildo is curved, with nodules along the shaft and bulbed tips at either end. If you and your partner are interested in exploring BDSM but are not into the black-leather vibe, this kit, with pre-tied knots made of natural fiber, is a good place to start.